Herstory Check

Slivered eyes my

way, my walk watched and

weighted, always on a scale of thumbs.

And I cease to be myself again,

surfeited definitions like bent hands on Salvador's clock.

All you cocks figure it out,

I'll be in my vagina bubble awkwardly predicting each one of you

onto the colored lights by name

--but let me make clear:

my legs are not spread to your mock or like or silence

--toys and go home

I AM YOUR FATHER

and I dance in your brined uncertainty at everything.

Only my friends bring me to parties anymore.

Rant on inequality

 Conversation on facebook around the article 'Skewering theories of ‘hard-wired’ gender differences' has me thinking. 


Suzan commented that "the emphasis on gender ... in the last 20 years or so (is) somewhat reactionary, a reification of socially mandated sex roles."

As a dad, I immediately flashed to taking my little to Toys R Us and how their toys are marketed. Blue and green on the right, pink and purple on the left. Why are our toys separated by gender?

What's the difference?

A lot of people would not see a problem with that, but kids who have different "rules" for the same toy can have trouble playing together. Through association, that can become a social divide that (since it's an experience that comes before the ability to analyze) is invisible. Creating enmities where there are none challenges Community, and Community is Power. If we're united and Solid, we can make this world what we want it to be.